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Self-moved.

在我们的青春岁月里，我们常常用一种几乎自虐的姿态，营造出一种痴情的假象，企图在爱情的战场上占据道德的高地。我们追求的是一种畸形的满足感和安全感，而这种追求往往使我们陷入一种错觉——...

碎碎念 # 内耗 # 自我感动

2年前

047941

Goodbye, China.

自由

4个月前

2070

Farewell, China (Chapter 2) The following is the English translation of Chapter 2: When I was not yet 30 years old, I left China and immigrated to a country that was thousands of miles away. I had always wanted to get out of the restrictive environment I grew up in, and fulfill my dream of living abroad and experiencing a different culture. After leaving China, I felt like I had escaped from a cage. I could finally breathe freely and no longer had to worry about the endless rules and regulations. The first few years were filled with excitement and a sense of liberation. Everything was new and stimulating - the language, the food, the people, the lifestyle. It was like being reborn. However, as time passed, I began to miss certain aspects of my life in China. I missed the bustling energy of the cities, the delicious local cuisine, the close-knit family bonds, and the familiarity of my native language and customs. I found myself frequently comparing my new life to my old one, trying to weigh the pros and cons. There were times when I felt lost and isolated in the foreign country. Despite my efforts to integrate, I still struggled with the language and cultural differences. I often felt like an outsider, unable to fully understand or be understood by the local people. The sense of belonging I once had in China was now replaced by a feeling of rootlessness. I also realized that no matter how long I lived abroad, a part of me would always remain Chinese. My cultural identity was deeply ingrained and could not be easily shed. Even as I adopted new habits and ways of thinking, there were certain core values and perspectives that I held onto stubbornly. As the years went by, I began to appreciate China in a new light. I developed a deeper understanding and respect for the country's history, traditions, and societal norms - things that I had previously taken for granted or even rebelled against. In a sense, my time away from China had allowed me to view it with a fresh perspective, free from the biases and limitations of my upbringing. Occasionally, I would find myself longing to return to China, to reconnect with my roots and the people I left behind. The decision to leave had not been an easy one, and I often wondered if I had made the right choice. The pull of my homeland was strong, and I struggled with the idea of potentially going back. As I continue to navigate the complexities of living between two vastly different cultures, I realize that my relationship with China is ever-evolving. It is a dance of attachment and detachment, of familiarity and foreignness. I may never fully reconcile the two sides of my identity, but I am learning to embrace the duality and find a sense of balance within it.

自由

2个月前

1450

Diversity of Human Nature (Part 1) Human nature is complex and diverse. Each individual has their own unique personality, experiences, and perspectives. This diversity is what makes humanity so rich and fascinating. Some people are extroverted and thrive on social interaction, while others are more introverted and prefer solitude. Some are methodical and logical, while others are more creative and intuitive. Some have a strong sense of justice and are driven to improve the world, while others are more focused on personal goals and fulfillment. This diversity is not a weakness, but a strength. It allows us to approach problems and challenges from different angles, to learn from each other, and to create a richer, more vibrant society. When we embrace and celebrate our differences, we can unlock our full potential and create a more harmonious world.

这一代人，看起来比上一代更懂心理学、会包装自己、讲求独立和清醒，但在亲密关系和自我认同上，却普遍带着一种怪异的扭曲感。现实里、互联网上，都能看到相似的面孔：黏得要命的恋人、自恋到失...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 人性的多樣化 # 代餐

2个月前

01370

Lifelong Partner

在这个愈加尴尬的年龄段，我们对待爱情和婚姻的态度应当是更加成熟和谨慎的。随着岁月的流逝，我们已不再拥有年轻时那份轻率的勇气，去随意尝试和更换伴侣，因为我们所缺失年轻时可以试错的资本...

碎碎念 # 爱情观 # 凑合 # 伴侣

2年前

01320

Do not chat frequently.

追女生为什么不要天天聊天？因为容易产生习惯，依赖就会有感情。如果女生也有好感，你们就想要见面，见面就要牵手，牵手了你就会上头，然后你就想在一起。这个时候女生她就会感觉到很大的压力，...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 舔狗 # 频繁聊天

2年前

01310

A Virtuous Person

在这个纷繁复杂的社会中，人与人之间的相遇可以说是一场命运的安排。有些人进入我们的生活，为我们指引方向，激发潜力，他们是我们真正的贵人。而有些人，他们的存在似乎只为给我们制造困扰和不...

碎碎念 # 珍惜 # 贵人 # 命运

2年前

012511

Chat Skills Effective communication is the key to successful interpersonal relationships. Here are some tips for improving your chat skills: 1. Be an active listener. Pay attention to the speaker, make eye contact, nod your head, and ask relevant questions to show you're engaged. 2. Ask open-ended questions. Avoid yes/no questions and instead ask questions that encourage the other person to elaborate. 3. Share personal stories and experiences. This helps build rapport and trust. 4. Be positive and enthusiastic. A cheerful tone and body language makes conversations more enjoyable. 5. Avoid controversial topics. Steer clear of sensitive subjects that could lead to conflict. 6. Be mindful of timing. Don't monopolize the conversation or interrupt the other person. 7. Show empathy and understanding. Validate the other person's feelings and perspectives. 8. Be a good conversational partner. Contribute your own thoughts and ideas to keep the dialogue flowing. 9. End on a positive note. Wrap up the conversation with an upbeat comment or plan for the next interaction. Practicing these chat skills will help you communicate more effectively and build stronger relationships.

很多兄弟都有这样的苦恼，不知道怎么跟女生开场聊天，刚开始还好好的聊着聊着女生就变得很敷衍，甚至干脆不回复了，看到一些渣男和妹子随随便便就能聊到热火朝天，自己却怎么都调动不了妹子的情...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 情绪价值 # 聊天技巧

2年前

01180

Goodbye, China (Chapter 3)

自由

23天前

1160

IWS Multilang - WordPress多语言翻译插件-iWSheng Blog

IWS Multilang - WordPress Multilingual Translation Plugin IWS Multilang is a WordPress plugin that allows you to easily create multilingual websites. It supports translation of content, menus, widgets, and more. Key features include: - Automatic machine translation using various services - Manual translation editing interface - Ability to translate all content types (posts, pages, custom post types) - Multilingual menu and widget management - Compatibility with popular WordPress plugins - SEO-friendly URL structure for translated content - Easy-to-use translation management dashboard The plugin aims to make the process of building multilingual WordPress sites as simple and efficient as possible. It provides a comprehensive solution for website owners and developers who need to publish content in multiple languages.

IWS Multilang 不是那种「装上就完事」的小脚本，而是一个真正能和现代 AI 搭配工作的多语言引擎。它诞生的出发点很简单：市面上好用的多语言插件大多被订阅模式锁死，而普通博客作者只想要一件...

折腾记录 # WordPress多语言翻译插件 # AI Translator # WordPress翻译插件

2个月前

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