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自我感动?-iWSheng Blog

Self-moving?

在我们的青春岁月里,我们常常用一种几乎自虐的姿态,营造出一种痴情的假象,企图在爱情的战场上占据道德的高地。我们追求的是一种畸形的满足感和安全感,而这种追求往往使我们陷入一种错觉——...
再见,中国。-iWSheng Blog

Goodbye, China.

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再见,中国(第二章)-iWSheng Blog
人性的多样化(上)-iWSheng Blog

The Diversity of Human Nature (Part 1)

这一代人,看起来比上一代更懂心理学、会包装自己、讲求独立和清醒,但在亲密关系和自我认同上,却普遍带着一种怪异的扭曲感。现实里、互联网上,都能看到相似的面孔:黏得要命的恋人、自恋到失...
终身伴侣-iWSheng Blog

Lifetime partner

在这个愈加尴尬的年龄段,我们对待爱情和婚姻的态度应当是更加成熟和谨慎的。随着岁月的流逝,我们已不再拥有年轻时那份轻率的勇气,去随意尝试和更换伴侣,因为我们所缺失年轻时可以试错的资本...
不要频繁聊天-iWSheng Blog

Don't chat too often.

追女生为什么不要天天聊天?因为容易产生习惯,依赖就会有感情。如果女生也有好感,你们就想要见面,见面就要牵手,牵手了你就会上头,然后你就想在一起。这个时候女生她就会感觉到很大的压力,...
再见,中国(第三章)-iWSheng Blog
聊天技巧-iWSheng Blog

Chat Skills Having good communication skills is essential for building healthy relationships and achieving success in various aspects of life. Here are some tips to help improve your chat skills: 1. Be an active listener. Pay close attention to what the other person is saying, make eye contact, and ask thoughtful questions to show you're engaged. 2. Ask open-ended questions. Questions that start with "who," "what," "when," "where," "why," and "how" can encourage more detailed responses. 3. Speak clearly and concisely. Avoid using complex jargon or slang that the other person may not understand. 4. Be aware of your body language. Stand or sit up straight, maintain eye contact, and use natural hand gestures to appear confident and interested. 5. Show empathy and be understanding. Try to understand the other person's perspective and validate their feelings. 6. Avoid interrupting the other person. Wait for them to finish speaking before responding. 7. Be a good conversational partner. Contribute to the discussion by sharing your own thoughts and experiences. 8. Manage your emotions. Stay calm and composed, even if the conversation becomes challenging. 9. Be patient and flexible. Not every conversation will go as planned, so be willing to adapt to the situation. 10. End the conversation gracefully. Summarize key points, thank the other person for their time, and suggest a follow-up if appropriate. By practicing these chat skills, you can improve your ability to communicate effectively and build stronger, more meaningful relationships.

很多兄弟都有这样的苦恼,不知道怎么跟女生开场聊天,刚开始还好好的聊着聊着女生就变得很敷衍,甚至干脆不回复了,看到一些渣男和妹子随随便便就能聊到热火朝天,自己却怎么都调动不了妹子的情...
贵人-iWSheng Blog

A Noble Person

在这个纷繁复杂的社会中,人与人之间的相遇可以说是一场命运的安排。有些人进入我们的生活,为我们指引方向,激发潜力,他们是我们真正的贵人。而有些人,他们的存在似乎只为给我们制造困扰和不...
妈妈-iWSheng Blog

Mother

我的妈妈,能说会道,却很少把“关心”落在我身上。我的妈妈,懂人情世故,却常把那套世故用来对付我。我的妈妈,有学问,喜欢咬文嚼字;也很有能力,尤其擅长把责任推得滴水不漏。这些话写出来...