碎碎念共6篇
关于我的日常感想,和我对待事物的看法。
爱情观与责任-iWSheng Blog置顶

Love Outlook and Responsibility Love is a beautiful thing, but it also carries great responsibility. When you fall in love, you must take on the responsibility of caring for another person and putting their needs before your own. This is not always easy, but it is necessary for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. One of the key responsibilities in love is communication. You must be able to openly and honestly communicate your thoughts, feelings, and needs to your partner. This allows you to build trust, resolve conflicts, and grow closer together. Hiding things or not speaking up can lead to misunderstandings and resentment. Another important responsibility is compromise. In a relationship, you cannot always have things your way. You must be willing to meet your partner halfway, make sacrifices, and find solutions that work for both of you. This requires empathy, patience, and the ability to put the relationship first. Lastly, you must be responsible for your own actions and their impact on your partner. Your words and behaviors can deeply affect your loved one, so you must be mindful and considerate. Hurting your partner, whether intentionally or not, is a breach of trust and can be very damaging. Loving someone is a privilege, but it also comes with great duty. If you are not willing to take on the responsibilities of love, you may want to reconsider entering a relationship. True love requires commitment, care, and sacrifice - but the rewards are immeasurable.

在这个快餐式爱情盛行的时代,我依然坚守着一种看似传统却深深扎根于心的信念:一个人只能和一个人暖昧,一个人就是不能吃两个人的菜。谈恋爱是为了结婚,是一份沉甸甸的责任,而不仅仅是短暂的...
iWSheng的头像-iWSheng Blog钻石会员iWSheng2年前
015.6W+8807
中国式“鸡娃”-iWSheng Blog

The "Chick-Nurturing" Phenomenon in China

交易和攀比的游戏 最近几年,'鸡娃'这个词火得不行。说白了,就是家长们疯狂给孩子报班、补课、搞各种培训。我理解每个父母都希望孩子有出息,但现在这股风气已经完全跑偏了。你去看看周围那些...
iWSheng的头像-iWSheng Blog钻石会员iWSheng3个月前
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理解-iWSheng Blog

Understanding

你的妈妈,她可能表现得强势,或许显得柔弱,有时候甚至显得不讲理。但无论她与你相处了多久,不完全理解你其实是很正常的。想想看,她的一生大多数时间都是在她自己的社会阶层中度过的,她没有...
iWSheng的头像-iWSheng Blog钻石会员iWSheng2年前
03.7W+15
终身伴侣-iWSheng Blog

Life-long partners

在这个愈加尴尬的年龄段,我们对待爱情和婚姻的态度应当是更加成熟和谨慎的。随着岁月的流逝,我们已不再拥有年轻时那份轻率的勇气,去随意尝试和更换伴侣,因为我们所缺失年轻时可以试错的资本...
自我感动?-iWSheng Blog

Self-indulgence.

在我们的青春岁月里,我们常常用一种几乎自虐的姿态,营造出一种痴情的假象,企图在爱情的战场上占据道德的高地。我们追求的是一种畸形的满足感和安全感,而这种追求往往使我们陷入一种错觉——...
iWSheng的头像-iWSheng Blog钻石会员iWSheng2年前
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贵人-iWSheng Blog

Influential person

在这个纷繁复杂的社会中,人与人之间的相遇可以说是一场命运的安排。有些人进入我们的生活,为我们指引方向,激发潜力,他们是我们真正的贵人。而有些人,他们的存在似乎只为给我们制造困扰和不...
iWSheng的头像-iWSheng Blog钻石会员iWSheng2年前
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