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不要频繁聊天-iWSheng Blog

Don't chat too often.

追女生为什么不要天天聊天?因为容易产生习惯,依赖就会有感情。如果女生也有好感,你们就想要见面,见面就要牵手,牵手了你就会上头,然后你就想在一起。这个时候女生她就会感觉到很大的压力,...
改变懦弱性格-iWSheng Blog

Here is the English translation: Changing a Timid Personality

如果正在阅读这篇文章的你在平时生活情感或者工作当中总是表现出来又怂又懦弱的性格,你一定要认真看完这条文章 ,并且反复观看,接下来要说的可能会颠覆你的三观,但是只要你理解了我这个文章...
iWSheng的头像-iWSheng Blog钻石会员iWSheng2年前
02.9W+0
恋爱中的五大“小丑行为”-iWSheng Blog

The Five "Clown Behaviors" in Love

女人眼中的五大小丑行为,你知道男生是如何一步步化为小丑的吗?就是因为做了以下5个行为:真、绅、渴、急、氪,尤其是第五个行为可以直接判定为哥谭最强小丑,希望兄弟们看完之后再也不要走上...
条件交换的爱情-iWSheng Blog

Conditional Love 人会在爱情中寄予太多的条件和期望,这种过度的要求常常会让双方感到压力,最终导致感情破裂。在爱情中,我们应该学会接纳对方的不完美,用理解和包容的态度对待对方的缺点和局限性。只有这样,爱情才能真正建立在彼此信任和尊重的基础之上,双方才能长久地相处下去。

爱情这东西,说得高尚一点叫灵魂契合,说得通透一点就是条件匹配,说得难听一点嘛,不过是利益交换而已。年轻人总喜欢假装自己追求的是纯粹,动不动就说要“嫁给爱情”,可惜世道早就把他们的脸...
iWSheng的头像-iWSheng Blog钻石会员iWSheng6个月前
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中国式“鸡娃”-iWSheng Blog

Chicken-raising Chinese Parents The intense pressure for academic success in China has led to a phenomenon known as "chicken-raising parents" (鸡娃, jī wá). These parents devote enormous time and resources to their children's education, sometimes at the expense of the child's well-being and healthy development. The term "chicken-raising" refers to the way these parents obsessively nurture and monitor their children, similar to how a mother hen cares for her chicks. They may enroll their children in a multitude of extracurricular classes, hire expensive tutors, and micromanage every aspect of their child's life, all in the pursuit of academic excellence. This approach stems from the deep-rooted belief in China that education is the primary path to social mobility and success. Many parents see their child's performance as a reflection of their own worth, leading them to place immense pressure on their offspring to excel. The phenomenon has sparked debate and criticism within China, with some arguing that it places undue stress on children and deprives them of a balanced childhood. Advocates, however, maintain that this intensive approach is necessary to compete in China's highly competitive education system.

交易和攀比的游戏 最近几年,'鸡娃'这个词火得不行。说白了,就是家长们疯狂给孩子报班、补课、搞各种培训。我理解每个父母都希望孩子有出息,但现在这股风气已经完全跑偏了。你去看看周围那些...
人性的多样化(上)-iWSheng Blog

The Diversity of Human Nature (Part 1)

这一代人,看起来比上一代更懂心理学、会包装自己、讲求独立和清醒,但在亲密关系和自我认同上,却普遍带着一种怪异的扭曲感。现实里、互联网上,都能看到相似的面孔:黏得要命的恋人、自恋到失...