Your mother may come across as strong-willed or perhaps even weak at times, and she may even seem unreasonable. But it's perfectly normal if you don't fully understand her, even after spending a long time with her. Think about it - for most of her life, she's been living within her own social circle, and she hasn't had the chance to experience the world that you have, let alone the unique life experiences you've had. You may not like your mother's seemingly pragmatic savviness, but you may not know that she too once had dreams and aspirations for the future, just like you. So try to be more patient with your mother, work on becoming a better version of yourself, and then take her with you to experience a broader world. Don't criticize her for her limited knowledge or narrow-mindedness.
Your father may also not be very good at expressing himself, or he may not talk much, and sometimes he may even seem a bit cold. But please understand that every day when he opens his eyes, he is faced with a group of people who depend on him, and he rarely has a shoulder to lean on. Although in your eyes, he was once the great hero who could solve any problem, but over time, his "superpowers" are also gradually fading away. You will eventually understand that even Superman is ultimately a mortal. He also has to face petty troubles, guilt, and regrets that he cannot handle. The reason he is able to persevere is that he must uphold the position of a father.
We stand on the shoulders of our parents and see the world they never had the chance to see. The reason they never experienced this world is because they invested their time and money in us to broaden our horizons. Therefore, we should not blame them for their lack of knowledge about the world, for it is their sacrifice that has given us a wider perspective.
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