Emotional Value

How to turn a girl from not liking you to liking you - many brothers may not understand, just by chatting you can make a girl fall in love with you, even become addicted to you, the method is actually very simple, provide emotional value to the other party. What exactly is emotional value, and how should you provide emotional value? As long as you understand the difference between male and female thinking, you don't need any skills or techniques to become an expert at providing emotional value.

Emotional Value

The emotional value is the influence a person has on the emotions of others. The most basic way is to suppress oneself by catering to and pleasing others. The ultimate is mutual empathy and interaction, mutually satisfying each other. The highest level is compatibility, where you not only see the other's vulnerability and helplessness, but also clearly know where their pain points and pleasurable points are, and can easily manipulate them. As long as you can fully understand this article, you can then decide your own emotions and influence the emotions of others, causing women to willingly chat with you and develop deeper relationships.

Your story illustrates how the emotional value we receive from others can impact our feelings. If your brother comforts and validates you after your breakup, it makes you feel better and provides emotional support. However, if he instead says "I told you so," even though he's right, it leaves you feeling regretful and less inclined to seek his help in the future. The emotional value you get, or fail to get, from others' responses shapes how you feel and your willingness to confide in them again. The key is recognizing that we often seek emotional value from those around us, and their ability to provide that can positively or negatively influence our emotional state.

Here is the English translation: You've noticed it, haven't you? People with high emotional value are easily able to make others develop trust and dependence, because interacting with them is comfortable and irresistibly endearing. Scumbag men are well-versed in this, knowing what women want to hear and how to think, so they can repeatedly succeed in interactions with women. What are the fundamental differences between male and female thinking? How can one provide emotional value without being a bootlicker, and just by agreeing with the other person, in order to become a high-value man?

Women are from the inside out, while men are from the outside in.

Your friend Liu Mou suddenly slapped his thigh excitedly while chatting with his girlfriend, and came over to ask you, "Brother Wang, how's this love line?" When she asks you why, you can tell her something more to make her happier. Brother Wang, can you give me some advice? The message successfully sent is a sentence that says, "Do you know why I chose you among the countless people, even though you are not outstanding?" You said you don't need it, it's already gone wrong, and told him to put the keyboard on the ground and kneel down to take a photo and send it over. I held back my laughter and gave him some tips. As expected, his girlfriend responded with three consecutive hits, "Say it again, how am I not outstanding? Is it because you have no other choice? Except for you being blind, which woman would want you?"

Women's logic is actually very simple. They will instantly lock onto the object in a sentence that refers to themselves, and then understand step by step from that point outwards. Once they discover a word in the sentence that is related to them, they will immediately stop trying to understand the entire sentence.

Women focus on people, while men focus on logic and facts.

Here is the English translation: When I received a message from a friend yesterday, I happened to see you shopping while I was having a meal at a restaurant. At that moment, you would notice that women tend to look at things from behind to front, while men usually look from front to back. It's quite a coincidence that I was there to buy something. What were you eating? Why didn't you call me to join you? You can try it yourself - women are more likely to prioritize discussing people in a sentence, especially themselves, while men often prioritize discussing the matter, especially the facts. So if you want to engage a woman's emotions in a conversation, you should leverage feminine thinking to the fullest. For example, if a woman says the weather is nice today, you can respond by saying "Is your mood good as well?" If she says her roommate cheated, you can reply "Not everyone treats relationships as seriously as you do." If she says she cried after watching the finale of her ex's TV show, you can ask "Which character do you think is most like you?" instead of asking which character left the deepest impression. Without exaggeration, even if you're a complete novice at chatting, as long as you add a "you" in your responses, she will naturally continue the conversation and keep it going until dawn.

Women like to complain, while men like to solve problems.

1. When a girl says her work is tiring, the guy should respond with empathy and a hug, not suggest she changes to an easier job. 2. When a girl says she has her period and her stomach hurts, the guy should respond with empathy and a hug, not just tell her to drink more hot water. 3. When a girl says she's cold, the guy should respond with empathy and a hug, not just tell her to wear more the next day. 4. When a girl says she's only seen the guy as a friend, the guy shouldn't just respond "I'll hug myself." The key points are: - When a girl expresses her feelings, the guy should respond with empathy and support, not try to immediately solve the problem. - The girl's complaints may be signals that she's interested in the guy, so he shouldn't dismiss them. - The guy should use a more effective formula to respond, rather than just offering hugs.

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I understand your work has been frustrating and the management can be difficult. However, taking time to reward and relax yourself is important. Watching a movie or enjoying a nice meal can be great ways to unwind and manage your emotions. I'm happy to join you and provide support during this time.

Women tend to prefer emotional depth, while men tend to prefer rational superficiality.

Here is the English translation: The outward appearance hides a plain life, and the plain life hides a stunning soul. This push-and-pull technique not only can evoke emotional fluctuations in the woman, but also will not let her focus on the plainness and the push. The two "hide" words in the sentence further demonstrate that I understand her better than the average person, and the term "stunning soul" at the end elevates the emotional expressiveness.

Women tend to think more divergently Men tend to think more convergently

Here is the translation: I usually buy a dress, let me show you. I'm also planning to buy one recently, I just placed an order and it hasn't arrived yet, let me know how it looks. Oh right, who wore a nice outfit last time? It looked pretty good. That person isn't great, quickly tell me what happened with them.

Here is the translation: Okay, I won't keep showing more after this. You all know how terrifying it can be when two girls are chatting. So how would the conversation be different if it's between a girl and a guy? The girl says she bought a dress today, and the guy replies "How much did it cost?" The girl says "89," and the guy says "Okay." Then they don't know what else to talk about, so the guy says "Get some rest, good night." Brothers, if you don't have better topics and still want to continue the conversation, you must grasp the points the other person brings up and expand on them. Can't master this esoteric skill? Then use the expansion priority order I've distilled for you: First tier: the thing itself, other related people, the depth of the matter.

The second echelon: Growth, three perspectives, and the feelings of both parties.

The Third Echelon: Character, Aesthetics, Future.

Fourth-tier films, books, and music.

The sneak attack brigade: Self-high value display output. The sneak attack brigade is the most important here, and it should be in a state of readiness to seize every opportunity, after all, the sneak attack is the purpose of us chatting with her.

Here is the translation of the content: Hearing this, many brothers may feel that providing emotional value is just licking, praising, and echoing the other party, and that you are the shame of the male world, asking us to be "sycophants"... Actually, it's not like that. We do and say these things based on the fact that we like the other party and are willing to talk to them, because you like her and hope to use the lowest cost to make both parties have a good emotional experience. So your high emotional intelligence solves all problems in this way. You are much stronger than those who boast about not spoiling women before apologizing, and become humbly begging when they really face breakup and loss. To summarize in one sentence: my mood is only decided by myself, and others can only feel good when I feel good. When you enter this state, you can influence the woman through expression, instead of being influenced by the woman's emotions and thoughts, and being led by the nose by the woman.