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再见，中国（第二章）-iWSheng Blog

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Farewell, China (Chapter Two)

iWSheng1个月前

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再见，中国。-iWSheng Blog

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Goodbye, China.

iWSheng3个月前

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爱情观与责任-iWSheng Blog

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Love Outlook and Responsibility Love is a beautiful thing, but it also carries great responsibility. When you fall in love, you must take on the responsibility of caring for another person and putting their needs before your own. This is not always easy, but it is necessary for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. One of the key responsibilities in love is communication. You must be able to openly and honestly communicate your thoughts, feelings, and needs to your partner. This allows you to build trust, resolve conflicts, and grow closer together. Hiding things or not speaking up can lead to misunderstandings and resentment. Another important responsibility is compromise. In a relationship, you cannot always have things your way. You must be willing to meet your partner halfway, make sacrifices, and find solutions that work for both of you. This requires empathy, patience, and the ability to put the relationship first. Lastly, you must be responsible for your own actions and their impact on your partner. Your words and behaviors can deeply affect your loved one, so you must be mindful and considerate. Hurting your partner, whether intentionally or not, is a breach of trust and can be very damaging. Loving someone is a privilege, but it also comes with great duty. If you are not willing to take on the responsibilities of love, you may want to reconsider entering a relationship. True love requires commitment, care, and sacrifice - but the rewards are immeasurable.

在这个快餐式爱情盛行的时代，我依然坚守着一种看似传统却深深扎根于心的信念：一个人只能和一个人暖昧，一个人就是不能吃两个人的菜。谈恋爱是为了结婚，是一份沉甸甸的责任，而不仅仅是短暂的...

碎碎念 # 爱情观 # 责任

iWSheng2年前

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理解-iWSheng Blog

Understanding

你的妈妈，她可能表现得强势，或许显得柔弱，有时候甚至显得不讲理。但无论她与你相处了多久，不完全理解你其实是很正常的。想想看，她的一生大多数时间都是在她自己的社会阶层中度过的，她没有...

碎碎念 # 感恩 # 理解

iWSheng2年前

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改变懦弱性格-iWSheng Blog

Change Weak Personality People with weak personalities often have the following characteristics: Lack of self-confidence, always feeling inferior to others, afraid to take risks, afraid of failure, unable to express themselves, easily influenced by others, and lack the ability to make their own decisions. The main reasons for a weak personality are: 1. Lack of self-awareness and self-acceptance. They do not understand their own strengths and weaknesses, and have a low self-evaluation. 2. Excessive concern about the opinions of others. They are overly concerned about how others perceive them and are afraid of being judged or rejected. 3. Lack of determination and willpower. They do not have the courage to face difficulties and challenges, and lack the perseverance to achieve their goals. 4. Poor social skills. They have difficulty communicating with others, expressing their thoughts and feelings, and building healthy relationships. To change a weak personality, the following steps can be taken: 1. Enhance self-understanding and self-acceptance. Identify your strengths and weaknesses objectively, and learn to accept and appreciate yourself. 2. Develop self-confidence. Set achievable goals, actively participate in challenges, and experience the joy of success to build confidence. 3. Cultivate determination and willpower. Face difficulties bravely, persist in the pursuit of your goals, and accumulate the experience of overcoming challenges. 4. Improve social skills. Practice communication skills, learn to express your thoughts and feelings clearly, and build positive relationships with others. With effort and perseverance, people with weak personalities can gradually transform themselves and develop a stronger, more confident personality.

如果正在阅读这篇文章的你在平时生活情感或者工作当中总是表现出来又怂又懦弱的性格，你一定要认真看完这条文章，并且反复观看，接下来要说的可能会颠覆你的三观，但是只要你理解了我这个文章...

情感 # 缺乏自信

iWSheng2年前

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恋爱中的五大“小丑行为”-iWSheng Blog

The 5 "Clown Behaviors" in Romantic Relationships

女人眼中的五大小丑行为，你知道男生是如何一步步化为小丑的吗？就是因为做了以下5个行为：真、绅、渴、急、氪，尤其是第五个行为可以直接判定为哥谭最强小丑，希望兄弟们看完之后再也不要走上...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 舔狗 # 小丑

iWSheng2年前

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女生不爱回消息，还要继续聊吗？-iWSheng Blog

Here is the translation: Should I continue chatting if the girl doesn't reply to my messages?

前言给兄弟们一条忠告，不管是谁，如果你给她发了一条需要她回应的消息，但是却石沉大海，那就永远不要发第二条。很多兄弟追求女生的时候应该都遇到过这种情况，给女生一连发了好几条消息，但...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 情绪价值 # 舔狗

iWSheng2年前

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情绪价值-iWSheng Blog

Emotional Value

怎样把一个女生从不喜欢你，聊到喜欢你，很多兄弟可能不明白，只要靠聊天就能让一个女生爱上你，甚至是对你上瘾，方法其实很简单，给对方提供情绪价值，那究竟什么是情绪价值，又该怎样给予情绪...

情感 # 情绪价值

iWSheng2年前

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缺爱型人格-iWSheng Blog

Lack of Love Personality Type People with a lack of love personality type are often characterized by the following traits: They have a strong need for love and emotional intimacy, but have difficulty establishing and maintaining close relationships. They may feel lonely and isolated, even when surrounded by others. They tend to be overly sensitive and easily hurt by perceived rejection or abandonment. They may become clingy or possessive in relationships, which can push others away. They often have low self-esteem and feelings of unworthiness, believing they are unlovable. This can lead to a constant search for validation and approval from others. They may develop maladaptive coping mechanisms, such as excessive neediness, manipulation, or sabotaging relationships, in an attempt to get their emotional needs met. Overall, the lack of love personality type is marked by a deep-seated insecurity and an intense yearning for love and acceptance that often goes unmet, leading to significant interpersonal difficulties.

我最近在研究缺爱型人格的深层次原因与影响时，发现这种人格特征不仅仅局限于对爱情的渴望，更是一种深刻的内心状态，源于个体成长过程中的经历与心理发展的偏差。缺爱者，尤其是一些男性的行为...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 爱情观 # 缺爱

iWSheng2年前

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条件交换的爱情-iWSheng Blog

Love based on conditions 交换的爱情是一种短暂而不稳定的感情关系。双方往往会在各种利益因素的驱使下,刻意维系这种关系,缺乏真挚的感情基础。当利益需求发生变化时,这种关系也很容易岌岌可危,甚至会走向破裂。因此,这种爱情往往不能持久,无法给双方带来幸福和满足。相反,真挚的爱情应该建立在互相理解、尊重和信任的基础之上。双方应该真诚地去了解和欣赏对方,不应刻意追求利益交换。只有这样,两个人的感情才能经得起时间的考验,给双方带来持久的幸福。

爱情这东西，说得高尚一点叫灵魂契合，说得通透一点就是条件匹配，说得难听一点嘛，不过是利益交换而已。年轻人总喜欢假装自己追求的是纯粹，动不动就说要“嫁给爱情”，可惜世道早就把他们的脸...

情感 # 爱情观 # 小红书

iWSheng3个月前

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中国式“鸡娃”-iWSheng Blog

The "Chick-Nurturing" Phenomenon in China

交易和攀比的游戏最近几年，'鸡娃'这个词火得不行。说白了，就是家长们疯狂给孩子报班、补课、搞各种培训。我理解每个父母都希望孩子有出息，但现在这股风气已经完全跑偏了。你去看看周围那些...

碎碎念 # 鸡娃 # 中国式家长

iWSheng3个月前

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GTA4汉化优化教程（养老版）-iWSheng Blog

Here is the translation of the content: GTA4 Chinese Translation and Optimization Tutorial (Retirement Edition)

前言《侠盗猎车手4》（Grand Theft Auto IV），是Rockstar Games游戏公司发行的一款围绕犯罪为主题的开放式动作冒险游戏。游戏于2008年4月29日登陆PlayStation 3和Xbox 360平台，于2008年12月2...

折腾记录 # GTA4 # 游戏

iWSheng2年前

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自我感动？-iWSheng Blog

Self-indulgence.

在我们的青春岁月里，我们常常用一种几乎自虐的姿态，营造出一种痴情的假象，企图在爱情的战场上占据道德的高地。我们追求的是一种畸形的满足感和安全感，而这种追求往往使我们陷入一种错觉——...

碎碎念 # 内耗 # 自我感动

iWSheng2年前

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