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Diversity of Human Nature (Part 1) Human nature is complex and diverse. Each individual has their own unique personality, experiences, and perspectives. This diversity is what makes humanity so rich and fascinating. Some people are extroverted and thrive on social interaction, while others are more introverted and prefer solitude. Some are methodical and logical, while others are more creative and intuitive. Some have a strong sense of justice and are driven to improve the world, while others are more focused on personal goals and fulfillment. This diversity is not a weakness, but a strength. It allows us to approach problems and challenges from different angles, to learn from each other, and to create a richer, more vibrant society. When we embrace and celebrate our differences, we can unlock our full potential and create a more harmonious world.

这一代人，看起来比上一代更懂心理学、会包装自己、讲求独立和清醒，但在亲密关系和自我认同上，却普遍带着一种怪异的扭曲感。现实里、互联网上，都能看到相似的面孔：黏得要命的恋人、自恋到失...

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The "Chicken Parenting" Phenomenon in China

交易和攀比的游戏最近几年，'鸡娃'这个词火得不行。说白了，就是家长们疯狂给孩子报班、补课、搞各种培训。我理解每个父母都希望孩子有出息，但现在这股风气已经完全跑偏了。你去看看周围那些...

碎碎念 # 鸡娃 # 中国式家长

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Goodbye, China.

自由

4个月前

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Love based on conditional exchange

爱情这东西，说得高尚一点叫灵魂契合，说得通透一点就是条件匹配，说得难听一点嘛，不过是利益交换而已。年轻人总喜欢假装自己追求的是纯粹，动不动就说要“嫁给爱情”，可惜世道早就把他们的脸...

情感 # 爱情观 # 小红书

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The Five "Clownish Behaviors" in Romantic Relationships

女人眼中的五大小丑行为，你知道男生是如何一步步化为小丑的吗？就是因为做了以下5个行为：真、绅、渴、急、氪，尤其是第五个行为可以直接判定为哥谭最强小丑，希望兄弟们看完之后再也不要走上...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 舔狗 # 小丑

2年前

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Changing a Weak Personality

如果正在阅读这篇文章的你在平时生活情感或者工作当中总是表现出来又怂又懦弱的性格，你一定要认真看完这条文章，并且反复观看，接下来要说的可能会颠覆你的三观，但是只要你理解了我这个文章...

情感 # 缺乏自信

2年前

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Do not chat frequently.

追女生为什么不要天天聊天？因为容易产生习惯，依赖就会有感情。如果女生也有好感，你们就想要见面，见面就要牵手，牵手了你就会上头，然后你就想在一起。这个时候女生她就会感觉到很大的压力，...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 舔狗 # 频繁聊天

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Chat Skills Effective communication is the key to successful interpersonal relationships. Here are some tips for improving your chat skills: 1. Be an active listener. Pay attention to the speaker, make eye contact, nod your head, and ask relevant questions to show you're engaged. 2. Ask open-ended questions. Avoid yes/no questions and instead ask questions that encourage the other person to elaborate. 3. Share personal stories and experiences. This helps build rapport and trust. 4. Be positive and enthusiastic. A cheerful tone and body language makes conversations more enjoyable. 5. Avoid controversial topics. Steer clear of sensitive subjects that could lead to conflict. 6. Be mindful of timing. Don't monopolize the conversation or interrupt the other person. 7. Show empathy and understanding. Validate the other person's feelings and perspectives. 8. Be a good conversational partner. Contribute your own thoughts and ideas to keep the dialogue flowing. 9. End on a positive note. Wrap up the conversation with an upbeat comment or plan for the next interaction. Practicing these chat skills will help you communicate more effectively and build stronger relationships.

很多兄弟都有这样的苦恼，不知道怎么跟女生开场聊天，刚开始还好好的聊着聊着女生就变得很敷衍，甚至干脆不回复了，看到一些渣男和妹子随随便便就能聊到热火朝天，自己却怎么都调动不了妹子的情...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 情绪价值 # 聊天技巧

2年前

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Attachment-deficient Personality People with attachment-deficient personality often have the following characteristics: 1. Lack of close interpersonal relationships and difficulties in establishing intimate relationships. They find it difficult to trust others and are prone to suspiciousness and guardedness in relationships. 2. Emotional indifference or detachment. They have difficulty expressing and experiencing emotions, and appear cold and aloof in interactions. 3. Self-centeredness and lack of empathy. They have a strong sense of self-importance and tend to be insensitive to the needs and feelings of others. 4. Difficulty in regulating emotions. They may experience sudden mood swings and have problems controlling impulsive behaviors. 5. Unstable self-image and poor self-esteem. They often have an unclear sense of identity and tend to have low self-worth. This type of personality disorder is usually rooted in childhood experiences of neglect, abuse, or lack of affection from primary caregivers. Addressing the underlying attachment issues is crucial for improving interpersonal functioning and emotional well-being.

我最近在研究缺爱型人格的深层次原因与影响时，发现这种人格特征不仅仅局限于对爱情的渴望，更是一种深刻的内心状态，源于个体成长过程中的经历与心理发展的偏差。缺爱者，尤其是一些男性的行为...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 爱情观 # 缺爱

2年前

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Lifelong Partner

在这个愈加尴尬的年龄段，我们对待爱情和婚姻的态度应当是更加成熟和谨慎的。随着岁月的流逝，我们已不再拥有年轻时那份轻率的勇气，去随意尝试和更换伴侣，因为我们所缺失年轻时可以试错的资本...

碎碎念 # 爱情观 # 凑合 # 伴侣

2年前

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