Life-long partners

In this increasingly awkward age, our attitude towards love and marriage should be more mature and cautious. As time goes by, we no longer have the reckless courage of youth to casually try and change partners, as we lack the capital to experiment when we were young. Instead, what we need is a partner who can accompany us through the rest of our lives, not just someone to marry, but more importantly, someone suitable to spend a lifetime with.

This view is not out of nostalgia for the younger generation, nor is it a negation of the young people's concept of love. When we are young, having more attempts at love can undoubtedly increase the breadth of life experience and emotion. But when we are in a more mature stage, our choice of a partner is not just based on momentary emotions, but rather on whether our values and outlooks on life are compatible, whether we can support and understand each other, and whether we can jointly build a harmonious family environment.

The anxiety of the elders at home often stems from their expectation of our happy life. They may not fully understand our choices and considerations, but their starting point is always to hope for our well-being. In this case, choosing a partner is like a carefully planned performance, which requires us to prepare seriously and rehearse meticulously, to ensure that the play not only starts smoothly, but also ends perfectly, earning the applause and recognition of everyone.

Choosing a partner with patience and caution is not only for ourselves, but also for our future family and children. A suitable partner can have a profound impact on the trajectory of our lives, affecting our career development, family happiness, and even the growth environment and education of our children. Therefore, partners in marriage not only need to be externally compatible, but also need to be inwardly connected, able to accept and understand each other, and face the ups and downs of life together.

In life, we will encounter all kinds of situations, just like those simple examples. Whether it is due to lack of material conditions or lack of external beauty, what is truly important is whether two people can find happiness in the ordinary, and whether they can see the unique beauty in each other's imperfections. Marriage is not a fleeting romance game, it requires true understanding, tolerance and mutual support. At this awkward age, let us seek with a mature heart the person who can walk with us through the rest of our lives.