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再见，中国（第三章）-iWSheng Blog

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Goodbye, China (Chapter 3)

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再见，中国（第二章）-iWSheng Blog

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Farewell, China (Chapter 2) The following is the English translation of Chapter 2: When I was not yet 30 years old, I left China and immigrated to a country that was thousands of miles away. I had always wanted to get out of the restrictive environment I grew up in, and fulfill my dream of living abroad and experiencing a different culture. After leaving China, I felt like I had escaped from a cage. I could finally breathe freely and no longer had to worry about the endless rules and regulations. The first few years were filled with excitement and a sense of liberation. Everything was new and stimulating - the language, the food, the people, the lifestyle. It was like being reborn. However, as time passed, I began to miss certain aspects of my life in China. I missed the bustling energy of the cities, the delicious local cuisine, the close-knit family bonds, and the familiarity of my native language and customs. I found myself frequently comparing my new life to my old one, trying to weigh the pros and cons. There were times when I felt lost and isolated in the foreign country. Despite my efforts to integrate, I still struggled with the language and cultural differences. I often felt like an outsider, unable to fully understand or be understood by the local people. The sense of belonging I once had in China was now replaced by a feeling of rootlessness. I also realized that no matter how long I lived abroad, a part of me would always remain Chinese. My cultural identity was deeply ingrained and could not be easily shed. Even as I adopted new habits and ways of thinking, there were certain core values and perspectives that I held onto stubbornly. As the years went by, I began to appreciate China in a new light. I developed a deeper understanding and respect for the country's history, traditions, and societal norms - things that I had previously taken for granted or even rebelled against. In a sense, my time away from China had allowed me to view it with a fresh perspective, free from the biases and limitations of my upbringing. Occasionally, I would find myself longing to return to China, to reconnect with my roots and the people I left behind. The decision to leave had not been an easy one, and I often wondered if I had made the right choice. The pull of my homeland was strong, and I struggled with the idea of potentially going back. As I continue to navigate the complexities of living between two vastly different cultures, I realize that my relationship with China is ever-evolving. It is a dance of attachment and detachment, of familiarity and foreignness. I may never fully reconcile the two sides of my identity, but I am learning to embrace the duality and find a sense of balance within it.

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再见，中国。-iWSheng Blog

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Goodbye, China.

iWSheng4个月前

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爱情观与责任-iWSheng Blog

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Love Outlook and Responsibility 爱情是人生一个很重要的部分,一个人如何看待和对待爱情,在很大程度上决定了他的生活品质。从个人角度来说,恋爱和婚姻关系是追求幸福、自我实现的重要途径。从社会角度来看,健康的爱情关系和家庭关系是社会和谐稳定的基础。所以,树立正确的爱情观,承担起应尽的责任,对于个人和社会来说都很重要。正确的爱情观应当既关注个人心理需求的满足,又不忽视社会责任。一个人要学会独立自主,既要有自己的人生追求,也要懂得关爱他人,为家庭和社会做贡献。

在这个快餐式爱情盛行的时代，我依然坚守着一种看似传统却深深扎根于心的信念：一个人只能和一个人暖昧，一个人就是不能吃两个人的菜。谈恋爱是为了结婚，是一份沉甸甸的责任，而不仅仅是短暂的...

碎碎念 # 爱情观 # 责任

iWSheng2年前

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IWS Multilang - WordPress多语言翻译插件-iWSheng Blog

IWS Multilang - WordPress Multilingual Translation Plugin IWS Multilang is a WordPress plugin that allows you to easily create multilingual websites. It supports translation of content, menus, widgets, and more. Key features include: - Automatic machine translation using various services - Manual translation editing interface - Ability to translate all content types (posts, pages, custom post types) - Multilingual menu and widget management - Compatibility with popular WordPress plugins - SEO-friendly URL structure for translated content - Easy-to-use translation management dashboard The plugin aims to make the process of building multilingual WordPress sites as simple and efficient as possible. It provides a comprehensive solution for website owners and developers who need to publish content in multiple languages.

IWS Multilang 不是那种「装上就完事」的小脚本，而是一个真正能和现代 AI 搭配工作的多语言引擎。它诞生的出发点很简单：市面上好用的多语言插件大多被订阅模式锁死，而普通博客作者只想要一件...

折腾记录 # WordPress多语言翻译插件 # AI Translator # WordPress翻译插件

iWSheng2个月前

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人性的多样化（上）-iWSheng Blog

Diversity of Human Nature (Part 1) Human nature is complex and diverse. Each individual has their own unique personality, experiences, and perspectives. This diversity is what makes humanity so rich and fascinating. Some people are extroverted and thrive on social interaction, while others are more introverted and prefer solitude. Some are methodical and logical, while others are more creative and intuitive. Some have a strong sense of justice and are driven to improve the world, while others are more focused on personal goals and fulfillment. This diversity is not a weakness, but a strength. It allows us to approach problems and challenges from different angles, to learn from each other, and to create a richer, more vibrant society. When we embrace and celebrate our differences, we can unlock our full potential and create a more harmonious world.

这一代人，看起来比上一代更懂心理学、会包装自己、讲求独立和清醒，但在亲密关系和自我认同上，却普遍带着一种怪异的扭曲感。现实里、互联网上，都能看到相似的面孔：黏得要命的恋人、自恋到失...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 人性的多樣化 # 代餐

iWSheng2个月前

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中国式“鸡娃”-iWSheng Blog

The "Chicken Parenting" Phenomenon in China

交易和攀比的游戏最近几年，'鸡娃'这个词火得不行。说白了，就是家长们疯狂给孩子报班、补课、搞各种培训。我理解每个父母都希望孩子有出息，但现在这股风气已经完全跑偏了。你去看看周围那些...

碎碎念 # 鸡娃 # 中国式家长

iWSheng4个月前

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条件交换的爱情-iWSheng Blog

Love based on conditional exchange

爱情这东西，说得高尚一点叫灵魂契合，说得通透一点就是条件匹配，说得难听一点嘛，不过是利益交换而已。年轻人总喜欢假装自己追求的是纯粹，动不动就说要“嫁给爱情”，可惜世道早就把他们的脸...

情感 # 爱情观 # 小红书

iWSheng4个月前

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恋爱中的五大“小丑行为”-iWSheng Blog

The Five "Clownish Behaviors" in Romantic Relationships

女人眼中的五大小丑行为，你知道男生是如何一步步化为小丑的吗？就是因为做了以下5个行为：真、绅、渴、急、氪，尤其是第五个行为可以直接判定为哥谭最强小丑，希望兄弟们看完之后再也不要走上...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 舔狗 # 小丑

iWSheng2年前

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女生不爱回消息，还要继续聊吗？-iWSheng Blog

Should I continue chatting with a girl who doesn't respond to my messages?

前言给兄弟们一条忠告，不管是谁，如果你给她发了一条需要她回应的消息，但是却石沉大海，那就永远不要发第二条。很多兄弟追求女生的时候应该都遇到过这种情况，给女生一连发了好几条消息，但...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 情绪价值 # 舔狗

iWSheng2年前

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改变懦弱性格-iWSheng Blog

Changing a Weak Personality

如果正在阅读这篇文章的你在平时生活情感或者工作当中总是表现出来又怂又懦弱的性格，你一定要认真看完这条文章，并且反复观看，接下来要说的可能会颠覆你的三观，但是只要你理解了我这个文章...

情感 # 缺乏自信

iWSheng2年前

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不要频繁聊天-iWSheng Blog

Do not chat frequently.

追女生为什么不要天天聊天？因为容易产生习惯，依赖就会有感情。如果女生也有好感，你们就想要见面，见面就要牵手，牵手了你就会上头，然后你就想在一起。这个时候女生她就会感觉到很大的压力，...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 舔狗 # 频繁聊天

iWSheng2年前

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聊天技巧-iWSheng Blog

Chat Skills Effective communication is the key to successful interpersonal relationships. Here are some tips for improving your chat skills: 1. Be an active listener. Pay attention to the speaker, make eye contact, nod your head, and ask relevant questions to show you're engaged. 2. Ask open-ended questions. Avoid yes/no questions and instead ask questions that encourage the other person to elaborate. 3. Share personal stories and experiences. This helps build rapport and trust. 4. Be positive and enthusiastic. A cheerful tone and body language makes conversations more enjoyable. 5. Avoid controversial topics. Steer clear of sensitive subjects that could lead to conflict. 6. Be mindful of timing. Don't monopolize the conversation or interrupt the other person. 7. Show empathy and understanding. Validate the other person's feelings and perspectives. 8. Be a good conversational partner. Contribute your own thoughts and ideas to keep the dialogue flowing. 9. End on a positive note. Wrap up the conversation with an upbeat comment or plan for the next interaction. Practicing these chat skills will help you communicate more effectively and build stronger relationships.

很多兄弟都有这样的苦恼，不知道怎么跟女生开场聊天，刚开始还好好的聊着聊着女生就变得很敷衍，甚至干脆不回复了，看到一些渣男和妹子随随便便就能聊到热火朝天，自己却怎么都调动不了妹子的情...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 情绪价值 # 聊天技巧

iWSheng2年前

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情绪价值-iWSheng Blog

Emotional value

怎样把一个女生从不喜欢你，聊到喜欢你，很多兄弟可能不明白，只要靠聊天就能让一个女生爱上你，甚至是对你上瘾，方法其实很简单，给对方提供情绪价值，那究竟什么是情绪价值，又该怎样给予情绪...

情感 # 情绪价值

iWSheng2年前

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