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再见，中国（第二章）-iWSheng Blog

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Farewell, China (Chapter Two)

iWSheng1个月前

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再见，中国。-iWSheng Blog

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Goodbye, China.

iWSheng3个月前

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爱情观与责任-iWSheng Blog

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Love Outlook and Responsibility Love is a beautiful thing, but it also carries great responsibility. When you fall in love, you must take on the responsibility of caring for another person and putting their needs before your own. This is not always easy, but it is necessary for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. One of the key responsibilities in love is communication. You must be able to openly and honestly communicate your thoughts, feelings, and needs to your partner. This allows you to build trust, resolve conflicts, and grow closer together. Hiding things or not speaking up can lead to misunderstandings and resentment. Another important responsibility is compromise. In a relationship, you cannot always have things your way. You must be willing to meet your partner halfway, make sacrifices, and find solutions that work for both of you. This requires empathy, patience, and the ability to put the relationship first. Lastly, you must be responsible for your own actions and their impact on your partner. Your words and behaviors can deeply affect your loved one, so you must be mindful and considerate. Hurting your partner, whether intentionally or not, is a breach of trust and can be very damaging. Loving someone is a privilege, but it also comes with great duty. If you are not willing to take on the responsibilities of love, you may want to reconsider entering a relationship. True love requires commitment, care, and sacrifice - but the rewards are immeasurable.

在这个快餐式爱情盛行的时代，我依然坚守着一种看似传统却深深扎根于心的信念：一个人只能和一个人暖昧，一个人就是不能吃两个人的菜。谈恋爱是为了结婚，是一份沉甸甸的责任，而不仅仅是短暂的...

碎碎念 # 爱情观 # 责任

iWSheng2年前

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IWS Multilang - WordPress多语言翻译插件-iWSheng Blog

IWS Multilang - WordPress Multilingual Translation Plugin

IWS Multilang 不是那种「装上就完事」的小脚本，而是一个真正能和现代 AI 搭配工作的多语言引擎。它诞生的出发点很简单：市面上好用的多语言插件大多被订阅模式锁死，而普通博客作者只想要一件...

折腾记录 # WordPress多语言翻译插件 # AI Translator # WordPress翻译插件

iWSheng1个月前

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人性的多样化（上）-iWSheng Blog

Diversity of Human Nature (Part 1) Human beings are a complex and diverse group. Each individual has their own unique personality, thoughts, and behaviors. This diversity of human nature is an important part of what makes us human. Personality is a key aspect of human diversity. Some people are extroverted and outgoing, while others are more introverted and introspective. Some are calm and easygoing, while others are more excitable and passionate. These differences in personality shape how people interact with the world around them. Diversity in thinking and reasoning is another important aspect of human nature. People have vastly different perspectives, beliefs, and approaches to problem-solving. Some favor logical, analytical thinking, while others rely more on intuition and creativity. This diversity of thought is a driving force behind innovation and social progress. In addition, human behaviors and actions also exhibit great diversity. People make different choices, have different habits, and express themselves in unique ways. Some are more risk-averse, while others are more adventurous. Some are more conventional, while others march to the beat of their own drum. This diversity in behavior is what makes human societies rich and dynamic. Overall, the diversity of human nature is a fundamental part of the human experience. It contributes to the richness and complexity of the human condition, and is a source of both challenge and opportunity.

这一代人，看起来比上一代更懂心理学、会包装自己、讲求独立和清醒，但在亲密关系和自我认同上，却普遍带着一种怪异的扭曲感。现实里、互联网上，都能看到相似的面孔：黏得要命的恋人、自恋到失...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 人性的多樣化 # 代餐

iWSheng1个月前

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中国式“鸡娃”-iWSheng Blog

The "Chick-Nurturing" Phenomenon in China

交易和攀比的游戏最近几年，'鸡娃'这个词火得不行。说白了，就是家长们疯狂给孩子报班、补课、搞各种培训。我理解每个父母都希望孩子有出息，但现在这股风气已经完全跑偏了。你去看看周围那些...

碎碎念 # 鸡娃 # 中国式家长

iWSheng3个月前

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条件交换的爱情-iWSheng Blog

Love based on conditions 交换的爱情是一种短暂而不稳定的感情关系。双方往往会在各种利益因素的驱使下,刻意维系这种关系,缺乏真挚的感情基础。当利益需求发生变化时,这种关系也很容易岌岌可危,甚至会走向破裂。因此,这种爱情往往不能持久,无法给双方带来幸福和满足。相反,真挚的爱情应该建立在互相理解、尊重和信任的基础之上。双方应该真诚地去了解和欣赏对方,不应刻意追求利益交换。只有这样,两个人的感情才能经得起时间的考验,给双方带来持久的幸福。

爱情这东西，说得高尚一点叫灵魂契合，说得通透一点就是条件匹配，说得难听一点嘛，不过是利益交换而已。年轻人总喜欢假装自己追求的是纯粹，动不动就说要“嫁给爱情”，可惜世道早就把他们的脸...

情感 # 爱情观 # 小红书

iWSheng3个月前

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恋爱中的五大“小丑行为”-iWSheng Blog

The 5 "Clown Behaviors" in Romantic Relationships

女人眼中的五大小丑行为，你知道男生是如何一步步化为小丑的吗？就是因为做了以下5个行为：真、绅、渴、急、氪，尤其是第五个行为可以直接判定为哥谭最强小丑，希望兄弟们看完之后再也不要走上...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 舔狗 # 小丑

iWSheng2年前

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女生不爱回消息，还要继续聊吗？-iWSheng Blog

Here is the translation: Should I continue chatting if the girl doesn't reply to my messages?

前言给兄弟们一条忠告，不管是谁，如果你给她发了一条需要她回应的消息，但是却石沉大海，那就永远不要发第二条。很多兄弟追求女生的时候应该都遇到过这种情况，给女生一连发了好几条消息，但...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 情绪价值 # 舔狗

iWSheng2年前

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改变懦弱性格-iWSheng Blog

Change Weak Personality People with weak personalities often have the following characteristics: Lack of self-confidence, always feeling inferior to others, afraid to take risks, afraid of failure, unable to express themselves, easily influenced by others, and lack the ability to make their own decisions. The main reasons for a weak personality are: 1. Lack of self-awareness and self-acceptance. They do not understand their own strengths and weaknesses, and have a low self-evaluation. 2. Excessive concern about the opinions of others. They are overly concerned about how others perceive them and are afraid of being judged or rejected. 3. Lack of determination and willpower. They do not have the courage to face difficulties and challenges, and lack the perseverance to achieve their goals. 4. Poor social skills. They have difficulty communicating with others, expressing their thoughts and feelings, and building healthy relationships. To change a weak personality, the following steps can be taken: 1. Enhance self-understanding and self-acceptance. Identify your strengths and weaknesses objectively, and learn to accept and appreciate yourself. 2. Develop self-confidence. Set achievable goals, actively participate in challenges, and experience the joy of success to build confidence. 3. Cultivate determination and willpower. Face difficulties bravely, persist in the pursuit of your goals, and accumulate the experience of overcoming challenges. 4. Improve social skills. Practice communication skills, learn to express your thoughts and feelings clearly, and build positive relationships with others. With effort and perseverance, people with weak personalities can gradually transform themselves and develop a stronger, more confident personality.

如果正在阅读这篇文章的你在平时生活情感或者工作当中总是表现出来又怂又懦弱的性格，你一定要认真看完这条文章，并且反复观看，接下来要说的可能会颠覆你的三观，但是只要你理解了我这个文章...

情感 # 缺乏自信

iWSheng2年前

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不要频繁聊天-iWSheng Blog

Don't chat too frequently.

追女生为什么不要天天聊天？因为容易产生习惯，依赖就会有感情。如果女生也有好感，你们就想要见面，见面就要牵手，牵手了你就会上头，然后你就想在一起。这个时候女生她就会感觉到很大的压力，...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 舔狗 # 频繁聊天

iWSheng2年前

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聊天技巧-iWSheng Blog

Conversation Skills

很多兄弟都有这样的苦恼，不知道怎么跟女生开场聊天，刚开始还好好的聊着聊着女生就变得很敷衍，甚至干脆不回复了，看到一些渣男和妹子随随便便就能聊到热火朝天，自己却怎么都调动不了妹子的情...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 情绪价值 # 聊天技巧

iWSheng2年前

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情绪价值-iWSheng Blog

Emotional Value

怎样把一个女生从不喜欢你，聊到喜欢你，很多兄弟可能不明白，只要靠聊天就能让一个女生爱上你，甚至是对你上瘾，方法其实很简单，给对方提供情绪价值，那究竟什么是情绪价值，又该怎样给予情绪...

情感 # 情绪价值

iWSheng2年前

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