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Goodbye, China (Chapter 3)

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23天前

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Farewell, China (Chapter 2) The following is the English translation of Chapter 2: When I was not yet 30 years old, I left China and immigrated to a country that was thousands of miles away. I had always wanted to get out of the restrictive environment I grew up in, and fulfill my dream of living abroad and experiencing a different culture. After leaving China, I felt like I had escaped from a cage. I could finally breathe freely and no longer had to worry about the endless rules and regulations. The first few years were filled with excitement and a sense of liberation. Everything was new and stimulating - the language, the food, the people, the lifestyle. It was like being reborn. However, as time passed, I began to miss certain aspects of my life in China. I missed the bustling energy of the cities, the delicious local cuisine, the close-knit family bonds, and the familiarity of my native language and customs. I found myself frequently comparing my new life to my old one, trying to weigh the pros and cons. There were times when I felt lost and isolated in the foreign country. Despite my efforts to integrate, I still struggled with the language and cultural differences. I often felt like an outsider, unable to fully understand or be understood by the local people. The sense of belonging I once had in China was now replaced by a feeling of rootlessness. I also realized that no matter how long I lived abroad, a part of me would always remain Chinese. My cultural identity was deeply ingrained and could not be easily shed. Even as I adopted new habits and ways of thinking, there were certain core values and perspectives that I held onto stubbornly. As the years went by, I began to appreciate China in a new light. I developed a deeper understanding and respect for the country's history, traditions, and societal norms - things that I had previously taken for granted or even rebelled against. In a sense, my time away from China had allowed me to view it with a fresh perspective, free from the biases and limitations of my upbringing. Occasionally, I would find myself longing to return to China, to reconnect with my roots and the people I left behind. The decision to leave had not been an easy one, and I often wondered if I had made the right choice. The pull of my homeland was strong, and I struggled with the idea of potentially going back. As I continue to navigate the complexities of living between two vastly different cultures, I realize that my relationship with China is ever-evolving. It is a dance of attachment and detachment, of familiarity and foreignness. I may never fully reconcile the two sides of my identity, but I am learning to embrace the duality and find a sense of balance within it.

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2个月前

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IWS Multilang - WordPress多语言翻译插件-iWSheng Blog

IWS Multilang - WordPress Multilingual Translation Plugin IWS Multilang is a WordPress plugin that allows you to easily create multilingual websites. It supports translation of content, menus, widgets, and more. Key features include: - Automatic machine translation using various services - Manual translation editing interface - Ability to translate all content types (posts, pages, custom post types) - Multilingual menu and widget management - Compatibility with popular WordPress plugins - SEO-friendly URL structure for translated content - Easy-to-use translation management dashboard The plugin aims to make the process of building multilingual WordPress sites as simple and efficient as possible. It provides a comprehensive solution for website owners and developers who need to publish content in multiple languages.

IWS Multilang 不是那种「装上就完事」的小脚本，而是一个真正能和现代 AI 搭配工作的多语言引擎。它诞生的出发点很简单：市面上好用的多语言插件大多被订阅模式锁死，而普通博客作者只想要一件...

折腾记录 # WordPress多语言翻译插件 # AI Translator # WordPress翻译插件

2个月前

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Diversity of Human Nature (Part 1) Human nature is complex and diverse. Each individual has their own unique personality, experiences, and perspectives. This diversity is what makes humanity so rich and fascinating. Some people are extroverted and thrive on social interaction, while others are more introverted and prefer solitude. Some are methodical and logical, while others are more creative and intuitive. Some have a strong sense of justice and are driven to improve the world, while others are more focused on personal goals and fulfillment. This diversity is not a weakness, but a strength. It allows us to approach problems and challenges from different angles, to learn from each other, and to create a richer, more vibrant society. When we embrace and celebrate our differences, we can unlock our full potential and create a more harmonious world.

这一代人，看起来比上一代更懂心理学、会包装自己、讲求独立和清醒，但在亲密关系和自我认同上，却普遍带着一种怪异的扭曲感。现实里、互联网上，都能看到相似的面孔：黏得要命的恋人、自恋到失...

情感 # 情绪价值 # 人性的多樣化 # 代餐

2个月前

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Attachment-deficient Personality People with attachment-deficient personality often have the following characteristics: 1. Lack of close interpersonal relationships and difficulties in establishing intimate relationships. They find it difficult to trust others and are prone to suspiciousness and guardedness in relationships. 2. Emotional indifference or detachment. They have difficulty expressing and experiencing emotions, and appear cold and aloof in interactions. 3. Self-centeredness and lack of empathy. They have a strong sense of self-importance and tend to be insensitive to the needs and feelings of others. 4. Difficulty in regulating emotions. They may experience sudden mood swings and have problems controlling impulsive behaviors. 5. Unstable self-image and poor self-esteem. They often have an unclear sense of identity and tend to have low self-worth. This type of personality disorder is usually rooted in childhood experiences of neglect, abuse, or lack of affection from primary caregivers. Addressing the underlying attachment issues is crucial for improving interpersonal functioning and emotional well-being.

我最近在研究缺爱型人格的深层次原因与影响时，发现这种人格特征不仅仅局限于对爱情的渴望，更是一种深刻的内心状态，源于个体成长过程中的经历与心理发展的偏差。缺爱者，尤其是一些男性的行为...

情感 # 缺乏自信 # 爱情观 # 缺爱

2年前

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Love based on conditional exchange

爱情这东西，说得高尚一点叫灵魂契合，说得通透一点就是条件匹配，说得难听一点嘛，不过是利益交换而已。年轻人总喜欢假装自己追求的是纯粹，动不动就说要“嫁给爱情”，可惜世道早就把他们的脸...

情感 # 爱情观 # 小红书

4个月前

036870

The "Chicken Parenting" Phenomenon in China

交易和攀比的游戏最近几年，'鸡娃'这个词火得不行。说白了，就是家长们疯狂给孩子报班、补课、搞各种培训。我理解每个父母都希望孩子有出息，但现在这股风气已经完全跑偏了。你去看看周围那些...

碎碎念 # 鸡娃 # 中国式家长

4个月前

011460

Goodbye, China.

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4个月前

2070

Love Outlook and Responsibility 爱情是人生一个很重要的部分,一个人如何看待和对待爱情,在很大程度上决定了他的生活品质。从个人角度来说,恋爱和婚姻关系是追求幸福、自我实现的重要途径。从社会角度来看,健康的爱情关系和家庭关系是社会和谐稳定的基础。所以,树立正确的爱情观,承担起应尽的责任,对于个人和社会来说都很重要。正确的爱情观应当既关注个人心理需求的满足,又不忽视社会责任。一个人要学会独立自主,既要有自己的人生追求,也要懂得关爱他人,为家庭和社会做贡献。

在这个快餐式爱情盛行的时代，我依然坚守着一种看似传统却深深扎根于心的信念：一个人只能和一个人暖昧，一个人就是不能吃两个人的菜。谈恋爱是为了结婚，是一份沉甸甸的责任，而不仅仅是短暂的...

碎碎念 # 爱情观 # 责任

2年前

015.6W+8807

Understanding.

你的妈妈，她可能表现得强势，或许显得柔弱，有时候甚至显得不讲理。但无论她与你相处了多久，不完全理解你其实是很正常的。想想看，她的一生大多数时间都是在她自己的社会阶层中度过的，她没有...

碎碎念 # 感恩 # 理解

2年前

03.7W+15

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